A weekly journey of Self-enquiry and Embodied practices.
Stop swiping and start connecting for real!
About the group
Remember the days when meeting other gay men meant heading to the local gay bar, sparking conversations, and connecting with people you might never have noticed on an app? It was messy, spontaneous, and real. We’re bringing that back—but with a twist.
We’re creating a space where gay men can meet meaningfully, reconnect with each other, and rediscover the joy of real connection. It’s about shedding the labels society has slapped on us and finding freedom in being ourselves—fully and unapologetically.
Let’s be honest: dating apps have left us feeling drained, disconnected, and craving something deeper. But we grow the most—personally and spiritually—through genuine connection, by listening to each other’s stories, sharing laughter and tears, and just being present.
This group is all about that kind of experience. Whether it’s weekly self-enquiry and embodied practice sessions, monthly community gatherings, or immersive destination retreats, you’ll find something here to help you reconnect with others and yourself in the most meaningful way.
What to Expect
The weekly group sessions on Tuesday evenings alternate between self-enquiry and embodied practice sessions to create connections and support personal growth.
More about the weekly alternating sessions
💬 Self-Enquiry
This is a safe, supportive space to share your thoughts and experiences. We’ll talk about emotions, relationships, and self-discovery while learning to embrace confidence and self-acceptance. We will practice compassion for each other however we choose to show up.
🌿 Embodied Practice
Rejuvenate your mind, body, and spirit with fun and relaxing activities, including:
- 🧘♂️ Partner Yoga and meditation
- 🎵 Sound baths / cuddle workshops
- ✨ Tantra, Touch & intimacy
- 🎶 Music and movement
✨ Experience the perfect mix of deep conversations and uplifting activities designed to open yourself to new experiences and connections
Why Join?
- Build meaningful friendships in a supportive community.
- Gain confidence and learn essential self-care skills.
- Relax, recharge, and reconnect with yourself in a supportive environment.
- Celebrate who you are in a space where you are seen, valued, and appreciated.
We invite you to be part of this journey of connection, growth, and celebration. We welcome you however you show up.
Spaces are limited to 10 men.
📅 Reserve your spot today and join the Gay Men’s Connection Group!
Your Facilitators
Your facilitators, Armand and Firefly bring together their collective years of experience facilitating group sessions and providing one-to-one support, integrating trauma-informed therapy with tantra and other bodywork practices.
Armand Botha
ARMAND BOTHA is a trained Core Energetics Practitioner who graduated from the Core Energetics Institute in the Netherlands. He completed his post-graduate training at the same institute and has also received training in Neo-Tantra, Sexological Bodywork, Internal Family Systems and Body Poetry. In his London practice, Armand combines these different modalities to help individuals and groups achieve personal transformation, especially those in the gay community. Armand is passionate about the mind-body-spirit connection and uses this passion to restore natural movement and energy flow to his clients. He brings his love, heart, high energy, and passion to his work and guides and supports people on their journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Armand has previously taught dance, fitness and education.
Firefly
FIREFLY is a Tantric therapist and coach who brings a wealth of training and experience to his transformational work. He began his journey with Gay Love Spirit in Prague and later advanced his expertise with the Tantra4GayMen teacher training. Firefly’s training also includes qualifications in Tantra Yoga and Reiki, as well as an Embodied trauma therapist graduating from The Centre For Healing in Australia. His work emphasises the restoration of energy flow, sensuality, and connection, fostering spiritual growth and a renewed sense of freedom. Firefly’s approach is grounded in love, compassion, and a deep passion for Tantric wisdom. He has participated in and taught at Tantra events around the world, sharing his knowledge and guiding others on their paths of healing and self-discovery. Firefly is a proud member of the IAOTH.
Pay £35 deposit to secure your place
Full course £400