A social to help build meaningful connections and networks of support amongst the non-monogamy community in London. No cruising allowed.
Join the ENM Fam on our 4th (!!) anniversary, our biggest event of the year! With exciting activities and announcements to be communicated soon via our Instagram page…
We will be charging this time for tickets as part of our fundraiser efforts for a charity that advocates for Trans+ rights.
We’ll be taking over the lovely indoor pub and outdoor beer garden of the Fox and Firkin pub in SE London to socialize and build connections with other non-monogamists of like mind.
Our events are about celebrating the diversity of our community, making friends, and sharing our experiences and information about other opportunities to support our non-monogamous love/life styles. Whether you are experienced or just started exploring non-monogamy, and whatever form of non-monogamy you identify with or practice, you are welcome to join the ENM Fam and we would love to meet you!
To celebrate our third anniversary since our very first event in 2021, we'll be arranging some exclusive activities (including our famous yearly community raffle) - stay tuned/check our Instagram to find out more.
IMPORTANT:
Our events are not designed for dating. Please do not attend to meet dates or to hook up. Save your cruisy energy for the apps, play parties, or dating events. Come with the intention to supporting our efforts to build a genuine sense of community.
This event is ticketed, so you will need to register to attend. This is a non-profit event which is fully volunteer run. Ticket costs are used to cover event running costs, with all remaining proceeds donated to charitable social causes important to our community.
There is no waiting list. If tickets sell out, we recommend checking the page regularly as you are likely to be able to obtain returned tickets from guests no longer able to attend.
If you choose to register for this event, we ask you agree to the following:
1) Aim to arrive by 8pm. Doors open at 7pm, and we want to prioritise tickets for people committed to fully participating in our event and activities. However, we understand life be lifen' and sometimes you may need to arrive later, please just get in touch and let us know.
2) You will cancel your ticket if you can no longer attend. Even though the tickets are free (donation based), they are limited. If you suddenly realise you can no longer attend, we want you to release your ticket so that someone else in our community can use it.
3) You MUST read and agree to the Code of Conduct before attending. Please note that there may be some regular pub customers on the night and anyone not wearing a name tag is not an event guest.
Your hosts for the evening are Ka, Daddy E and Jax.
We look forward to seeing you all!
> 💬 About This Event: This is a community-led, volunteer-run social gathering created by and for the ENM (ethical non-monogamy) community.
🎟️ All ticket proceeds go directly towards covering shared event costs such as venue hire, music, equipment, cleaning, and safety supplies.
💖 Any surplus after essential expenses are covered will be donated to charitable causes or mutual aid initiatives important to our community. Organisers and volunteers take no personal payment, salary, or profit from ticket sales.
💸 Suggested contribution: £5-10
This helps us cover costs and keep the event sustainable while raising money for charitable causes.
🙏 Pay What You Can
We don’t want cost to be a barrier. If you’re low on funds, please message us for a free or discounted place, no questions asked.
📌 This is a not-for-profit initiative. A different volunteer may receive the ticket payout each event, but this is only to manage logistics, not income. Financials are tracked and donations reported for full transparency.
Pub related information:
ACCESSIBILITY: The Fox and Firkin is a step-free venue but does have one step and some uneven surfaces in the beer garden. Both the bar and toilets are also on the ground floor. Toilets are designated gender neutral for this event.
The venue is soft low lighting indoors with lots of seating. It can get be loud indoors with talking (especially in colder months when people use the garden area less) and with the pub's background music (we do ask the pub to keep music volume turned down with varying degrees of success). We usually have a short grounding speech or occasionally performances on the indoor stage indoors which utilize a sound system (lasting 10 -20 minutes). It is possible to relocate to the quieter garden area if the level of sensory stimulation becomes overwhelming indoors during this time.
The outdoor garden area has lots of room and can be quieter with less sensory stimulation than indoors. There's lots of covered areas for seating outdoors; however it is also colder in this area even with recent installation of space heaters in some areas. Consider bringing layers or small blanket to comfortably use this space in colder months.
If you have any accessibility needs please don't hesitate to get in touch to let us know what we can do to support you on the evening
ALCOHOL: this is a sober-friendly event. Although it is being held at a pub, the Fox and Firkin have several alcohol-free drinks available. We encourage everyone to come, whether they drink alcohol or not.
FOOD: Please see the venue's website for more information.