'Not Exactly What It Says On The Tin' Speed Dating - ladies' tickets

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103 North Road, Brighton and Hove, BN1 1YW (view map)

Monday 25th August 2025 at 8:00 PM

Accessibility - Accessible Toilets, Complimentary Ticket for Assistant, Step Free Access, Wheelchair Accessible

£9 to £12

'Not Exactly What It Says On The Tin' Speed Dating - ladies' tickets

Here at TKL we're very enthusiastic about bringing people together, and helping you find the connection you're looking for, whether it be a social group to attend parties with, someone to share the excitement and nerves of your first event, discussions - a chance to talk to people with great ideas - a poly partner, a play partner, or something more traditionally romantic. It's all good.

For this speed dating, we invite anyone who resonates with any of this to join us:

open to a het connection. This is the page for people who want a ladies' ticket (GENTS' TICKET LINK HERE)
willing to pick a side (this does not have to be you every day, or even all of you at any one time, but the format of this event requires two self-defined groups who are mutually interested in each other),
enjoys, or interested in any of: ENM including poly and swinging, sex positivity, kink, sacred sexuality or tantra,
ND (your hosts are all of these things, between us), plus
anyone who feels like they are not exactly what it says on the tin in any other way. We got you.

You are our people :) Want to join us in growing your tribe?

What do you get?

Up to 14 speed dates with people who have similar interests to you
A chance to be one of two lucky guests to be treated to a signature cocktail on us
Signature cocktails available to buy with or without alcohol
A bar offering a range of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks plus a range of teas and coffees (and cakes if they've not been hoovered up during the day!)
5 dates guaranteed - goodness forbid but any fewer and all tickets will be refunded
Sweets for every attendee
We are delighted to have found a venue where we can accomodate most access needs - please drop us a line before the event so we can confirm and ensure that where we can, we do

A waiting list will be opened up once tickets are sold out: we usually manage to make a couple of tickets available this way, so please keep an eye on your inbox if you sign up!

PLEASE NOTE

Please contact us if you purchase a ticket but are no longer planning/able to make it. Not being able to attend is fine, we do understand, it happens! What is not great, and what we are working hard to minimise, is when the event is sold out and people miss out on attending or on dates due to no-shows. This is a limited capacity event and we always have a waiting list. Repeated no shows without notice will be blocked from future bookings.

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Brighton Events Dating Social

The Lineup

Check in begins at 8pm.

Dating will start at 8.30pm on the dot!If you arrive after we have started, we will get you seated as soon as we can, but we can't guarantee that you will have a chance to speak to all of the other attendees.

There will be two short breaks during the evening so that you can refresh your drinks and rest your vocal chords.

After the event the space is yours to carry on socialising until closing time if you so wish - there may be more people to meet, plus a chance to delve a little deeper into all the wonderful new connections you've started during your speed dates.

The venue is a lovely new space in central Brighton and serves a wide range of cocktains and other drinks, as well as selling books! (They will also consider a book swap - please ask staff if you are interested in a book exhange :) )

What You Need To Know

Age restriction: No under 18s. If you are under 21 please reach out before buying a ticket.

Terms & Conditions

We expect all attendees to be aware of the different consent models, and to understand the importance of applying them.
By attending, you agree not to undermine other people’s identities or reasonable needs.
PLEASE NOTE - tickets are non-transferable and non-refundable.
You must never ask anyone for their contact details. If you would like to stay in touch, OFFER your details. No exceptions to this one.
Tell us if you can’t come!
We reserve the right to refuse entry.
Please come ready to treat every person you meet as a person - fairly and with equality. If you believe anyone can be defined by a single attribute, our events are not for you.
… and finally: buy the right ticket. Seriously. You’ll date the people who have the other type of ticket, it ain’t a hack to beat the waiting list!

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