This 1-day workshop is for LGBT people in London who want clarity, perspective and a new way of thinking about what's next for them.
Design Your Life is a guided, focused day that helps you step out of autopilot and make deliberate choices about what comes next.
Through short research-based inputs, practical tools, and thoughtful conversation, you’ll move from clarity to action, supported by a like-minded group.
Is it for me?
Most people arrive feeling a mix of curiosity and apprehension, and quickly realise they’re not alone. They're tired of feeling that life's a bit flat or running on autopilot. They leave clearer, inspired and energised with concrete next steps they actually want to take. That may relate to careers, connections, meaning, health, relationships ... or any aspect of their experience.
What it's like on the day
You’ll arrive in a relaxed, comfortable, human space. Most people arrive feeling a mix of curiosity and apprehension, and quickly realise they’re not alone.
The day is guided and facilitated and deliberately unpressured. You can expect:
- Short, thoughtful research-based inputs
- Time working on your own, in pairs, and in small groups
- No pressure to share anything personal - listening is always welcome
- Practical tools and materials to work with and take away
- Space for conversation, questions and your best thinking
Often, it’s the simple, unexpected conversations and the momentum of the group that make the biggest difference. Most people leave feeling clearer, lighter, and quietly energised.
Who is it for?
LGBT+ people (& allies) who:
- Are ready to redefine what success means to them
- Want meaningful goals & turn them into reality
- Have a commitment to their personal growth
- Want to cut through noise & distraction and focus on what matters
- Are excited to make connections with like-mind people
Design Your Life is shaped as much by the people in the room as the content itself. To protect that experience, everyone has a short, informal conversation with Neil before booking is confirmed, just to make sure it feels like the right step for you at this time.
What we will cover on the day
The day moves through four broad stages: see clearly; decide what matters; choose deliberately; act and sustain. We'll be using proven tools that deliver practical results and discussing ideas and actions in pairs or small groups.
Is it really free?
There is an opportunity to make a donation to help cover costs. Suggested donation, £49. If cost is a barrier, you’re very welcome to join for free. If you're ready to make change and contribute to the group, I'd rather have you in the room!