This SUNDAY meeting is one of the series celebrating the pleasures of giving and receiving penis massage, but with some subtle changes - literally.
First and most obviously, as men who love men, our cocks can be a source of great pleasure, for ourselves and others. And these afternoons are intended to help men unashamedly embrace those pleasures. ‘Unashamedly’, because there can be shame around our genitals that many men carry from childhood, and around masturbation, which may have been fast and literally undercover (the bed covers) to avoid detection. So, this workshop is invitation to push back against that negative conditioning.
But, alongside the pleasures of cock massage, we can raise other, more subtle and powerful energies, cultivating mindful and intense awareness, not just alongside, but through pleasure.
The afternoon begins with a welcome and introduction, and checking our understandings around safety, confidentiality and consent. We then move into simple connections through touch before a mindful undressing ritual, leading into a body-based meditation to deepen awareness sensation.
We will then move into body massage, before adding in different cock strokes ( with an invitation to hold your energy) - giving body and cock massage slowly and with light touch - not a ‘jerk off’. Just to add, erections are welcome but not needed to enjoy this. And - unlike normal masturbation, the intention is not to come. The invitation is rather to engage with the practices and sensations, while dropping expectations.
All Tantric Meetings for Men are suitable for guys new to tantra and also those with experience. There is an invitation to work with different men, which can be great way to learn about how we are with different men.. However it's fine if you bring a partner who you want to stay with - just let me know.
Please contact me if you have questions about group tantra (email steve.hopker@gmail.com, call/text/WhatsApp me on 07813 371006).
Please bring a sheet (ideally single - flat or fitted), a towel, a water bottle, perhaps a sarong or blanket for breaks…
…and, above all, an open mind and heart.
There are Early Bird discounts, and do note NOTAFLOF - No One Turned Away For Lack Of Funds - see the ‘Pay what you can tickets’. Please contact me if money is a barrier to your attending and we'll try and find a way for you to join us.
Finally, please check the ‘Terms and Conditions’, our agreements about safe participation.